There are many situations in life where your self-confidence takes a big hit. Sometimes we overcome the hardships of life, and sometimes we are overwhelmed. Courage and confidence can help, but they can also undermine confidence. However, the important thing to remember here is that “no one can hurt you without your consent.” It is the influence that allows the to influence you. Pain is inevitable in life, but suffering is optional, as the saying goes. It’s your choice, and whether you want to recover or suffer is entirely up to you.